TIPS ON COMMUNICATING WITH CONFUSED PERSONS
- Create a calm environment. The tone of your voice and your facial
expressions are very important in speech. Try not to over-react to a
situation. Take things slowly and smile whenever possible.
- Do NOT assume the person cannot understand what is being said. NEVER talk
about the person as though he/she is not present.
- Avoid quizzing the person on names and dates.
Not knowing an answer is embarrassing. If you want to ask questions, try to
know the answers beforehand and help the person to answer. Often when given a
cue, the confused person will be able to answer adequately.
- Use gestures when trying to get your messages across. Try using more than
one sense to communicate, such as touching as well as talking.
- Try to appeal to the person’s sense of humor, but never laugh at them.
- Be reassuring. If you don’t know the answer about someone or some thing,
try, “I’m sure everything is all right.”
- Praise the person’s actions whenever possible but do not patronize.
Compliment a new hairdo or outfit that may be new to you.
- If the person starts or continues to walk while you are talking to them,
keep moving along in front of him or her. Do not try to stop the person. If
you need to change directions, ease into the move by distraction.
- Do NOT argue about statements you know to be untrue. Insisting something
is true to someone who believes facts to the contrary can only make the
situation worse. Example: The person insists her husband will be joining her
for dinner and you know her husband is deceased. Reminding her he is gone may
prove very upsetting, and can re-activate feelings as if his death just
happened all over again. The best approach is to gently distract the person
onto a different subject. A temporary change of subject will often solve the
problem and divert the person’s attention to a different thought altogether.
- Simplify each task into single steps. Be patient and use short sentences.
Don’t overwhelm the person with a string of instructions. Example: Instead of
saying, “Put on your shoes and socks,” say, “Put on your socks.” When that is
accomplished, then say, “Put on your shoes.”
- Avoid situations that bring about frustration and anger. Try to anticipate
problems to prevent them from happening. This will get easier as you get to
know the confused person better.
- Encourage him/her to participate in confused
adult-appropriate/failure-free activities that provide pleasure. Be aware,
though, that individuals may have short attention spans. Find out what
activities they have enjoyed in the past.
- The most important rule is to treat the confused person as an adult, and
to always be respectful.
TIPS ON DEALING WITH AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR
- Avoid trying to reason or argue with them, as it only adds to confusion
and increases over-reaction.
- Remember that a person with dementia cannot think of several tasks at
once. For example, bathing requires unbuttoning, undressing, finding the
bathroom, turning on faucets, and climbing into a tub. At the same time,
he/she may feel insecure without clothes on, and feel they have lost their
privacy and independence. It can be overwhelming for a person who can’t
remember how to do all of these tasks or process all these activities at once.
Remember patience and time are key in these types of activities.
- If a person becomes hostile, stubborn, or nasty, fully accept that these
behaviors are responses the person cannot control.
- If possible, remove the person from the uncomfortable situation in a
quiet, unhurried way. The short-term memory will likely not retain the
uncomfortable situation.
- Give the person time to respond. Wait and reduce the confusion around the
person. Fewer people, less noise.
- Various aids can help remind the person about what is going on. Follow
familiar routines. Leave things in familiar places. Provide brief, written
instructions. Example: Putting labels on kitchen drawers like “silverware” and
“towels” may help.
- Simplify what the person has to think about. Avoid complicated details.
- Do not respond to a confused person with an expression of frustration or
anger; doing so will only make the problem worse and upset them more.
- Always speak calmly, take things one step at a time, and move slowly. Do
NOT come up to a confused person quickly from behind – this can startle them.
- Gently pat or hold their hand.
- Try not to become frustrated or discouraged yourself. Try to examine what
is happening. Know that the confused person is not behaving erratically on
purpose. Identify what is upsetting them and consider the ways you can change
it.
TIPS FOR HOME SAFETY
- Register with SAFE RETURN. Be sure to include a current photo with your
application.
- Make neighbors aware of your loved one’s diagnosis so that if they notice
your loved one wandering they will quickly alert you.
- Be attentive around your loved one; always be looking for new potential
hazards in the environment.
- Find a good “handyman” that is dependable and can help you at short
notice.
- Lock up or dispose of toxic materials such as cleaning fluids,
insecticides, and medicines so that they are not accidentally ingested by your
loved one who has memory problems.
- Learn to disable the car. A person with memory loss should never drive;
they can easily get lost and cannot react quickly enough or appropriately to
road hazards. Do not risk the life of your loved one and other innocent people
on the road.
- Place locks on the top of doors, out of sight line. Installing doorbells
will alert the caregiver if the door opens or closes.
- Cover or remove mirrors—especially in the bathroom. A person with memory
loss may interpret their reflection as a stranger in the home and could lead
to an accident.
- Remove unnecessary rugs to prevent falls or secure rugs (and other easily
movable furniture) with a non-slip type backing.
- Remove unnecessary furniture to keep walkways clear but try not to
rearrange furniture unless absolutely necessary.
- Keep decoration simple with plain walls and carpets and eliminate clutter.
- Remove poisonous plants (like oleander) so they are not mistakenly eaten.
- Place a lock on the thermostat and water heater so that a person with
dementia cannot adjust them. Be aware that to prevent burns water should be
not hotter than 120° F.
- Install a fire extinguisher in the kitchen.
- Remove knobs from the stove so that the person with memory loss cannot
switch it on. Install child safety latches on the inside of cabinets where
cleaning products are kept.
- Place non-slip mats in showers and tubs.
- Install grab-bars by the toilet, shower, and bath. Towel rails are NOT a
substitute.
- Learn the Heimlich maneuver.
- Install night-lights, especially between the bedroom and bathroom.
- Install pool safety devices including gate locks.
- Post important numbers by the telephone: police, fire, family, and
friends.
- Keep a recent photo of your loved one available. Have a plan for your
loved one in case you, the caregiver, are unable to provide care.
Call the Alzheimer’s Association Desert Southwest Chapter at 602.528.0550, or
623.815.2494 for literature and tips to create a safe home for persons with
memory loss.
Selecting a Facility
The following questions are points to consider when selecting a nursing or
assisted living center or home for your loved one:
Necessary Basics:
1. Is the facility currently licensed by the AZ Dept. of Health Services to
provide the level of care needed?
2. Will the home give you a copy of the admissions contract and resident care
policies to study?
a. Does the contractual process
allow resident, family, and physician involvement?
b. When may a contract be
terminated? Are there refund policies?
3. Is a statement of residents’ rights posted in clear view?
4. All Skilled Nursing Facilities (SNF’s) are required to display their most
recent survey results in a public, easy-to-see location. Look for this in your
visit – you have a right to this information.
5. What is the basic monthly charge?
6. What services are included in this charge? (personal laundry, activities,
etc.)
a. Are these items written in
the contract? If not, what are the additional fees?
7. In a skilled nursing facility, does the staff help the resident find
available financial assistance if it is needed?
8. If repayment is to be made through Medicare, county, Veteran’s
Administration, Bureau of Indian Affairs, or private insurance, is the nursing
home certified to accept such placement?
Important Safety Features:
9. Are toilet and bathing facilities easy for disabled residents to use?
a. Is the home built to accommodate wheelchairs?
b. Are there grab bars and safety devices?
10. Are hand-rails available to aid in walking?
11. Is an emergency evacuation plan posted in a visible place?
a. Does the home have safety devices such as smoke detectors, sprinkler
system, etc.
b. How often are fire drills and disaster drills practiced?
c. Are the halls clear for an evacuation?
Medical Necessities:
12. What is the policy for calling a resident’s doctor when a problem arises?
13. What provisions are made for medical emergencies?
a. For dental care?
b. For filling prescriptions?
c. For routine medical appointments?
14. In a skilled nursing facility, when a resident’s doctor orders special
services (special diet, physical therapy, speech therapy, oxygen, tube feeding,
other special care), can the facility provide for them?
15. Is self-administration of medication allowed?
16. To what extent are medical services available, and how are these services
provided?
General Atmosphere and Resident Privacy:
17. Is the atmosphere warm, pleasant, and cheerful?
a. Do staff know residents by name and are they respectful?
b. Do residents socialize with each other?
c. Are the rooms well lit, ventilated, kept at a comfortable temperature and
odor-free?
d. Does each resident have a reading light, comfortable chair, closet and
drawers for personal belongings?
e. Are floors, windows, bathrooms, etc., clean?
18. Do the residents look well cared for and generally content?
a. Are they dressed in street
clothes?
b. Are they allowed to decorate
their own rooms?
c. Are they allowed to keep a
few of their own possessions?
d. How does the facility select
roommates?
e. Are there provisions of
privacy?
19. Do residents, volunteers, and staff speak favorably and freely?
20. Are staff members cheerful and courteous?
a. Do they show genuine
affection and respect toward the residents?
b. Do they smile and speak
respectfully to the residents while talking to them?
Meals & Dining Accommodations:
21. Is the dining room clean, comfortable, and attractive?
a. Are the residents encouraged
to eat in the dining room?
b. Are meals offered at set
times only?
c. What is the meal schedule?
Are three balanced meals a day offered, seven days a week?
d. What kinds of food are
included in the menu? Does the menu vary?
e. Are snacks served?
f. Where are the menus posted?
g. Do residents who need it
receive help with eating?
h. Are visitors allowed to eat
with residents? Can residents eat meals in their room, unit, or apartment?
Family Involvement:
22. In what way does the home encourage the residents, families, and friends
to assist in the care?
23. In what way does the home encourage suggestions from residents and their
families?
24. Are family and friends encouraged to visit?
a. Are there indoor and/or
outdoor places for private visits with family and friends?
b. Are residents allowed to
leave the home with family and friends?
c. What are the visiting hours?
Recreational Activities:
25. Is there a variety of interesting social, recreational, and cultural
activities planned?
a. Where is the schedule of
activities posted?
b. Do residents participate in
the activities?
c. Are supplies and equipment
available for activities?
26. Does the residence have its own pets?
27. Are residents’ pets allowed in the residence?
Contact the Arizona Department of Health Services, Assurance, and Licensure
Services Division for additional information on individual facilities (such as
complaints that may have been filed against the facilities.)
Phoenix: 1647 E. Morten, Phoenix, AZ, 85020 602/674-9705
Tucson: 400 W. Congress, Tucson, AZ 85701 520/628-6965
Access the Assurance & Licensure Services (ALS) Web Site at http://hs.state.az.us/als/index.html
to obtain information on long-term care facilities (Provider Databases);
Consumer Guides, and State rules and laws.
Rare Dementia Fact Sheet
What Is Dementia?
Dementia is the loss of intellectual functions (such as thinking,
remembering, and reasoning) of sufficient severity which interfere with a
person’s daily functioning. It is not a disease in itself, but rather a group of
symptoms that may accompany certain diseases or physical conditions. The cause
and rate of progression with dementias vary. Some of the well-known diseases
that produce dementia include Alzheimer’s Disease (AD) and others discussed
below. Other conditions that may cause mimic dementia include depression, brain
tumors, nutritional deficiencies, head injuries, hydrocephalus, infections
(AIDS, meningitis, syphilis), drug reactions, and thyroid problems. It is
imperative that all persons experiencing memory loss deficits or confusion
undergo a thorough diagnostic work-up. This requires examination by a
neurologist experienced in the diagnosis of dementing disorders and detailed
laboratory testing. The examination should include a re-evaluation of all
medications and a detailed family history. This process will help the patient
obtain treatment for reversible conditions, aid the patient and family in
planning future care, and provide important medical information for future
generations.
Dementia w/Lewy Bodies (2nd most common form of dementia)
- Progressive, rapid decline in cognitive skills that interferes w/daily
living activities
- Common symptoms include frequent & extreme fluctuations in cognitive
skills, visual-spatial difficulties, recurring/detailed visual hallucinations,
Parkinson's symptoms (falls, slow/stiff but no tremor), short term memory is
usually good
- Lasts up to 7 years, little evidence of genetic component, depression is
common
- Can use AD medications. Parkinson drugs and anti-psychotic medications
often exacerbate symptoms
- Frontotemporal Dementias (FTD) including Pick's (3rd most common form of
dementia)
- Progressive, usually between 40-65 years of age, significant genetic
component
- AD medications do not work for FTD, cannot slow progression, medication is
used for symptom management
- Lasts an average of 8 years. Disease does not usually affect orientation
to time/place or visual-spatial orientation.
- Symptoms depend on lobe affected [behavioral (right) language (left).]
- Dramatic changes in personal and social behavior, hypochondriasis, rigid
thinking and impaired judgment, overeating/cravings, loss of insight into
behavior, mouthing of objects (hyperorality), compulsive behaviors, loss of
empathy, lack of attention
- Late stage symptoms include loss of speech, hyperoral traits, and movement
disorders
Creutzfeldt – Jakob Disease (CJD)
- Affects 1 in a million annually, usually between the ages of 50-75
- Should be suspected when people develop both psychiatric and neurologic
features (headache, loss of consciousness) within 4 months after the onset
neurologic symptoms. Later features include aggression, hypersomnia,
confusion, and gait disturbance.
- More common in Libyan-born Jews, some rural communities in Czechoslovakia
and Chile, those who took human growth hormone in the 70s, those who had
trauma and surgery to the head, those with intra-ocular pressure
- CJD prion (pathogen consisting of protein) transforms normal benign
protein molecules into infectious deadly ones.
- Transmission: through sporadic occurrence (no known origin), inherited
(10-15%), or by direct contamination with infected neural tissue (iatrogenic
transmission)
- Progression: from memory failure/behavioral changes, difficulty in
concentrating, lack of coordination, visual disturbances, muscle spasms (myoclonus)
to complete loss of physical and mental functions, coma
- No treatment and death usually occurs within months or a year
Huntington's Disease
- Inherited disorder that affects personality, thinking, memory, speech,
judgment, and motor control. Onset typically between the ages of 30-45 but
there is a juvenile form
- Early symptoms include depression, mood swings, forgetfulness, clumsiness,
involuntary twitching, and lack of coordination.
- Later symptoms include loss of concentration and short-term memory,
involuntary movements of the head, trunk, and limbs. Dementia may develop in
later stages
Primary Progressive Aphasia (PPA)
- A clinical syndrome, not a neurological diagnosis
- Average age of onset is 64, PPA is more common in males
- Gradual decline of language skills, possible dementia in later stages
- Diagnosis: aphasia (inability to think of words, speak correctly,
understand others, read and write) for two years before other symptoms
develop. Speech therapy can be effective for aphasia.
- Concentrated loss of neurons in language areas of brain
- Not curable but can treat symptoms such as depression. Average duration is
8 years.
- Memory problems can be treated w/AD medications.
Subcortical Arteriosclerotic Encephalopathy (SAE) / Binswanger’s
- Progressive neurological disorder, lasts up to 10 years
- Gradual loss of motor/cognitive/behavioral abilities
- May stabilize briefly, then progresses
- Dementia, 1-side paralysis, seizures, abnormal gait, apathy, unable to
make decisions, hardly speak, poor judgment, difficulty forming words,
difficulty swallowing, incontinence, Parkinsonian symptoms, arteriosclerosis,
hypertension
Vascular Dementia
- General term for thinking impairment resulting from disruptions in the
brain's blood supply to areas. involving memory, reason, and emotion with
usually abrupt onset
- Usually occurs between ages 60-75, can progress in step-wise manner
- Multi-infarct dementia occurs when small strokes
block arteries to the brain.
- Isolated vascular dementia is uncommon, it is often a mixed dementia with
AD.
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